@Bathsheba we are all listening…and we all send our love. Time and rest are great healers…
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I’m so sorry for your worry. I’m still saying my prayers. I do wish I could do more to help.
Big virtual hugs Sheba. Xxx
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I am so sorry to hear this Bathsheba, please think positive. Hugs to you both.
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Bathsheba, I hope your sister had a good night and can get through this.
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Thinking of your darling sister 
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Hoping there has been some change during the day, and for the better. Sending hugs.
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The updates I’m getting from my nephew are steadily getting worse. She remains on life support, and is being medicated and patched up for so many issues now. Despite being on maximum antibiotics, the infection isn’t reducing. They’ve said the next 2 days will be critical. There will be a multi-disciplinary review later this week, which I suspect will recommend palliative care only, because there really is very little more they can do.
And you know what? I hope this is the recommendation, because nothing short of a miracle now would restore her health to a level where she could have a decent quality of life. I couldn’t bear to see her get through this, but spend what life is left to her in a nursing home, enfeebled and in distress, with no independence. She’s always said she’d hate to have to go into a nursing/care home, so I’m not going to wish that on her, not after all she’s been through.
The pain and distress is not hers now, it’s mine and her sons’ and all who love her. So I’m preparing myself to let her go, let her have some peace. Thank you all so much, once again, for all your support.
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Bathsheba, I am so so sorry to hear this latest report from you. I just cannot think of what to say. But your attitude and reaction is probably the best. She cannot be allowed to suffer any more.
As always, sending thoughts and prayers your way. And hugs to you and her family. xx
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Sheba…I can’t think of anything to say other than I am so sorry you have had to steel yourself for the worst. We are with you, every step of the way. xx
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So very sorry to hear this Bathsheba, such brave and beautiful words . Nothing can take away your deep sadness . I’m thinking of you and your beautiful sister
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Bethsheba what a true and loving sister you are my thoughts are with you xx
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Muddy, I agree, you couldn’t wish for a better sister than Bathsheba.
If only, one little miracle could happen…
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My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time Bethsheba.
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Oh Bathsheba what a wonderful loving sister. My thoughts are with you and her boys.
@Bathsheba your view is and always will be mine a well. Still hugs and best wishes winging your way
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It can’t be easy for you Batheshea. I’m sure you will do the right thing.
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So sad to hear after all her fight. Don’t know what else to say sending you hugs. There’s all ways someone here for you to talk to.
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Hugs to you, Bathsheba. xxx
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Many Thoughts, Good Wishes & Prayers
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