he’s been an amazing friend to me though. I first met him in this ward February last year and he has brought me things I’ve needed from my house. He’s had Myeloma i think, but has been throughthe stem cell therapy thing last Summer so knows what its like. He’s a big tough guy who worked in Angola and a lot of places in the 3rd world as we then knew it. And it seems the treatment is working for him. He does get aches and pains but is looking for a desk job as he is 63 now. Retirement not really an option, and he is too proud to accept anything from the state apart from the basic PIP which is his right and what I’m on, although I think I get a higher rate.
You’ve got a great mate there, Ffosse. With Andy and also you sister, there are people (apart from we cyberspace pixels pixels) who are doing what they can to make your life a more comfortable place at the moment hopefully.
What happens next Ffosse regarding your hospital stay? Do you have any tests on the agenda this week that you know about yet?
I’ m not sure if it’s next Wednesday and I hope not- or the following one after that I resume chemo, then more steroids (they never made me feel as bad in the past!) then on with the stem cell therapy. I’m not completely sure but I think I’ll be here around a month in total. Then there’s not coping at home with the panic attacks, falling down ( the real fear of it) and just my mobility in general. Whenever I’ve gone anywhere further than my doctor’s surgery I’ve had a panic attack and it’s only a 5 minute walk away.
I’ve spent fortunes on taxis to and back from this hospital That’s mostly where my pip money has gone I haven’t done any work in weeks now though fortunate to be desk based… I could tell you loads of taxi driver stories.
Dreamy could you not have a support package at home?
I know it is strangers in your home, but, it will make you feel safe.
Also, consider one of those button things you can wear around your neck, it alerts someone to help you. Not sure of the name, my MIL had one.
I’ve asked for the support package, Sweetie, my last 5 days when they let me be discharged home were amongst the most peaceful in a year I’d say, but I was always scared of the delirium coming back as it did with the Hodgkins they’re now trying to kill for the second time, they thought it was in remission but it was giving me the terrible delirium and back pain.I’ve come to realise that it’s weeks at home which make me sick yet if I’m in hospital they’ll take away my PIP so best to get discharged if the Consultant is OK with it. I lasted 17 days this time - the clock only goes up to 28 days although I suppose money should be the least of my worries, although I’ve paid for my direct cremation up front, or will have in a week or so once In confident in it when my sister brings in the documentation
It is nice to go one for a few hours as I shall be doing tomorrow - the blue tooth keyboard isn’t really working with my phone so now I have wi-fi I can use my iPad or Macbook.
So, I need the help at home for both mobility reasons as I seem to have deteriorated and of course, I need a CPN who can visit, not wedded to an office I can’t reach.
I could live years though but want to be as comfy as possible.
That is my worry Dreamy, you will get home and you will need support. Glad you have WiFi.
Yes, you will, I do hope it all gets sorted for you.
You could and I am hoping you will. xxxx
Fosse matey, get yourself a ‘care link’. Its a bracelet that fits on your wrist or round your neck, there is a ‘base station’ that plugs into your landline telephone and if you ‘trigger it’ it will alert the ‘care link’ to respond to you. You can either have a ‘key safe’ outside your door with a combination known to the ‘Care link’ staff or you can nominate friends, family or neighbours who have a key to your place. If you choose the latter, these, friends or family must live fairly close to you.
It costs me £18.50 per month, but like you, I live alone, and it gives me ‘peace of mind’ that should I fall ill, I can summon assistance immediately. ‘Care link’ can be contacted via your local authority Adult Disability team of your Social Services unit.
Thanks Uncle Joe - that’s a hefty subscription but one that saves lives - I’m looking into as many of these services as possible and I’ve added yours to by list.
Since I’m here, I’m adjusting to the colder weather up here - I needed an extra blanket last night. Slightly uncomfortable pain in my tummy today too.
Good Morning Dreamy.
Joe is right that is peace of mind.
I fly to Gibraltar tomorrow, but will try to post. So glad you have so much support here. X
Have bought a number of jumpers from Atlas for men.co.uk
over the past few weeks - go on line and have a look, I’m very pleased with mine and the quality is very good.
Hope you enjoy Gibraltar, Sweetie.
Well, my plans of going home for a few hours later have been scuppered by around six nurses witnessing my near collapse in the corridor - I just felt so dizzy, luckily I didn’t fall but my blood pressure was low; I should have got up more slowly. I forget and think I’m ok, typically bloke stuff, but I am here for however long it takes… it’s just that my mobility is not good in general. What would have happened if I was alone and something like that happened, going back to UJ’s post?
I’ve not been seen by the doctors yet, but that will change soon and I should mention my sore stomachs also to them. I tend to tell them less than I should after I’ve had a bad dizzy spell or if something is ailing me.
Thanks! Will do - I love window shopping online, especially when someone else had recommended them.
Those look very nice and reasonably priced. I could do with the parka for outside at £35.
Fosse matey, even with x% off, that sounds a bit on the ‘cheap and nasty’ side. A few weeks ago I bought this :
One of the best buys I made - its half lined with fleece in the top half and is immensely warm. No way would you get cold or wet wearing this matey.
Hi all.
Just to let you know, Ffosse is locked out of his account but I’ve sent a PM to the moderators to ask if they can sort it out. He sent me an email.
Oh dear poor Dreamy.
At least he can email you Floydy.
I thought it was a good idea to give him my email as he can’t always get through on the forum if he’s in hospital. Otherwise he’s rather cut off from civilisation 
Very cut off from civilisation - I’ve missed this forum.
Nothing much has changed: I’m still in hospital and didn’t get to go home as I have developed hypotension, very low blood pressure and quite bad dizzy spells. They’ve had me drinking lots of water and I have special white stockings to wear.
Other than that I’ve been bored out of my mind even though I have my iPad to play with. It certainly makes typing easier (horizontally).