I was thinking about how our priorities change as we get older. When I was younger, I probably worried more about having everything figured out. These days, I find myself appreciating the simple things a lot more — a good laugh, spending time outside, pets, a peaceful morning, good conversation and having genuine people around me.
So I’m curious, especially from those of you who have been around the block a few times
What’s something you appreciate much more now than you did when you were younger?
It can be anything at all — friendship, family, traveling, gardening, having time to yourself, a quiet cup of coffee, or simply waking up and having another day to enjoy.
Most days are just a blank canvas, it’s brilliant but an early night is always welcome and looked forward to.
Being a thinker, I prefer my own company and the quiet life but social when required or necessary…
I try not to waste time these days. .And do things.You think you’ve got time to spare when you are young.
(I consider posting on the forum as doing things.)
Peace of mind. Not having to worry about mortgage- paying bills- having to go to work. Not having to comply to orders from managers who came straight out of uni, without a clue about the job. My time not someone elses.
Well, I travelled extensively and that was interesting/enjoyable but also quite stressful at times. Now I can just be relaxed without all the pressures. But still miss the excitement - I don’t know how to explain that.
Observing nature. I think I must have been walking around with my eyes closed in the past, I seem to be much more fascinated now by the beauty of the countryside where I live, listening to the birds singing, watching the trees swaying when the strong winds blow, following the path of a butterfly as it flies past me, noticing a new variety of wild flower popping up and just appreciating nature at its best.
I find myself looking up at the sky more often, watching the weather changing, and especially the nightime starry skies, identifying constellations, just being more aware of the miracle of life!
Aye,good for You Laddie…but then You never had three pregnancies and delivered 3 healthy 9lb Babies…did Ye?..Ya big showaff…I’m betting Ye’ve put on a few inches around that waist too now.