I think that we are all so shocked that we are making assumptions on how & why it happened!
None of us have any idea what happened to Sarah, and we may never learn the whole truth because the woman who died will never have the chance to give her side of the story!
Perhaps everybody should wait till the police & courts release more info, because I always feel that Juries in trials for crimes like this, may be influenced by what people, who actually know nothing, say!
I read, allegedlyā¦he was off sick for a considerable time and had only recently returned for duty.
Donāt you think the media have been doing that for years Twinkā¦āTrial by mediaāā¦The pen is mightier than the sword!
Sick in the head Artyā¦
I also heard that he was a married man with 2 children. How sad that so many people are suffering, owing to this ladies death!
If he did kill her, his family will suffer, but they will even if he didnāt, now they have released his name!
I just wonder why the press are giving this info so soon! It makes me think that the police think he did it, but surely only a trial can decide thatā¦ unless there were witnesses to him killing her?:shock:
Unless he fesses up Twinkā¦
Is his wife still arrested for lying to the police? Wonder what will happen to her (and the poor kids, of course)
Hi
A personal view OGF.
I am sick in the head, I have severe and complex PTSD.
I am not going to attack or kill anyone soon.
I am most certainly not going to attack, physically or sexually any woman.
My PTSD is that if I come across anyone who is doing so or has done so I will kick off, they will not enjoy the experience.
My worry is that I will react so strongly that they might get off Criminal Charges.
It is incredibly difficult, as a man, to protect the rights of these individuals.
That could have been my daughter, etc, and difficult not to hammer them into the ground.
Every fibre in your body is telling you to give them a kicking of a lifetime.
You canāt and that is difficult to live with.
You would not attack them whilst they are restrained, it is so, so tempting to have their handcuffs taken off and say.
Right, now make me cry , try to rape me, pillock.:twisted:
You cannot do that we have rules.
It is difficult at times.
I think they must have other connections that they knew each other. He lived in Kent but seemed to hang around in South London bars. A married man with kids going to bars miles from his home and exposing himself? Doesnāt sound like everything was as it should be. So I think they must have some pretty strong evidence which we have yet to see reported.
Just as any murder this is upsettingvand shocking. Her poor family. I do hope they get answers and justice for their beautiful daughter.
Because if this one sick policeman im seeing the police force being persecuted on social media.
That monster better watch his back for ever ,
The sort of men who wolf whistle in good humour are the least likely to carry out an attack or murder.
Are you saying that he wasnāt sick in the head Swim? Because I donāt believe that a perfectly sane and normal bloke would want to kill another human, unless it was a him or me situationā¦
Because Iām not a psychologist I canāt differentiate between all the different types of mental illness, so as far as Iām concernedā¦āSick in the headā covers itā¦
That is true, but I feel this is much more complex than it appears!
I often wonder if humans are becoming just animals again, despite living in a civilized society!
There are too many sex crimes & too little respect for the lives of othersā¦ so are we becoming wild animals again?
It is one of the reasons that I feel discipline & harsh punishments should return!
I think much the same as you, Foxy.
Whether it was rage, or passion, or whatever his logic at the time, it still shows he could not control his actions.
As for people saying how much they would love to kick him and beat him and they donāt know if they could control that - doesnāt that make them scarily similar?
We have always been animals. Even animals have rules of behaviour. Civilisation just enables us to thrive as a species. But we are the most violet species on the planet.
I agree Annie. That is why we are our own worst predator, except animals mostly kill for food.
Maybe that makes humans much worse.
Exactly that summer!
He was cruising the area , saw her walking alone , he stopped and
showed her his badge and asked where she was going, then offered her a lift, and that was that ??
The possibilities are endless, speculation is pointless !!
It s quite possible the police allready had reason to suspect him as
apparently they had suspended him for something?
Donkeyman!
I certainly agree with you Annie, but ask myself why did we abandon our rules of behaviour and become the most violent? There must be a cause for the changes!
Totally agree, Donkeyman, although that is what people always do - speculate instead of waiting to see what developes.
I agree, mostly, OGF, but I worry that āsick in the headā can become the standard defence for other things,as well, e.g. throwing acid, punching in the head, etc.
Once given a āhospitalā sentence, instead of prison, can they come out, quicker, and do it again?
I wouldnāt like to be on a jury, these days.