Doing Things on your own

Unfortunately, I must do all things alone…I’m given no choice/s, in that. I’ve learned to live with most of it, though…but, I do have my bad times, now and then. I’m getting back into reading (mostly afterlife, paranormal, psychology, therapies) and I’m hooked into a great love affair with movies! I live for my movies! :slight_smile:

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I’m ok with my own company… I do have pals though.

I’ve noticed as I’m getting older I prefer my own company, apart from of course my beloved husbands.

Up until not so long ago I really was a social butterfly, was never in, was always out with friends doing one thing or another but these days i prefer to shut myself away in my craft room. Don’t get me wrong, I still enjoy coffees and meals out with my friends but I’m always glad to get home. I don’t know why I’ve changed like that, does it happen to a lot I wonder as we age?

I seem to be shrinking into myself and I’m not sure it’s a good thing or a bad thing?

I tend to feel down a lot these days and I try hard to pick myself up but something always seems to come along and shoot me down again. I’ll keep getting up though, I’m a fighter.

I think it’s the same for most people, life is and can be very difficult for many.

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Actually I feel the same way… but you’d better turn up next week :slight_smile: x

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haha, I’ll be there with clogs on :coffee: :stuck_out_tongue:

There are times I’m happy to share with friends but I also often lunch out alone , I’m not embarrassed at all . I’ll go events on my own , pictures and theatre .

I used to go to live gigs alone to see my fav bands , not so much now though .

it doesn’t worry me going to cinema or theatre one my own, I’ve done it and it’s not bad as you have to be quiet anyway lol.

You’ve made me think I should go to see Elton John alone as I really want to see him but no one wants to go with me!!

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When it comes to shopping I much prefer to do it alone. I also like to take walks on my own.

I think friends are important & I meet up regularly with mine for lunch or a walk once a week or fortnight.

Cinema/Theatre/Holidays, I’m not so happy going on my own but last year when I wanted to see a film & nobody would come with me, I ventured on my own. It was ok but I’d rather go with somebody.

I took a day trip to Whitby earlier this year on my own. My half sister lives in that area at Saltburn on Sea & I was going to see her. Nobody on the coach spoke to me &I felt they were looking at me. I wouldn’t be happy doing that regularly.

I’d say I’m 50/50 loner/socialiser.

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