Do you ever wonder how you come across to others?

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If you were introduced to yourself, would you find yourself amicable, friendly, a misery, rude?
Would you want to be your friend - or avoid you like the plague? :thinking:

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As I have no friends in real life or on here, I must be a horrible person

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I would get along just fine with myself. I like plain speaking and rarely take prisoners, so yes, I would mesh with myself very well indeed.

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I don’t believe that for a minute, Primus.
Don’t put yourself down.
Isn’t it you who works at the old folks home, and they must take some patience at times. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Mups,

I just sat in front of my mirror and made an attempt to answer the question!

Result, I’m not going to buy the Mirror any more!

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I guess I’d like the person introduced to me. Why not, given all those positive personal traits. :innocent: What makes me confident is the feedback I got throughout my working life from colleagues and customers. I just can’t be an obnoxious bloke.

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I think my problem is, in my quest to see humour in everything, I might offend people who don’t see the funny side…

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I’d have to get to know myself first,:wink:

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Well, I would hope people would find me friendly and approachable.

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I have always found you friendly & approachable Susie ! :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

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Hi

Nope, too many idiots on here to worry about that.

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I hope I would find myself helpful, friendly, kind & a nice person to know. I’m sure my friends think I’m all those things.

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Hi

Tiffany

You are lovely, nobody could possibly take offence at your posts.

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Awwww! Swimmy, I love you too. :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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[Do you ever wonder how you come across to others?]
Thinking hard on it…but…NOPE :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

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Someone I am not keen on, but I tolerate him to keep the family peace, is said to exactly like me by my wife…….so I wonder why I’m not keen on the bloke :thinking:

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Amazing isn’t it how some people judge a book by it’s cover?

I had a very slight speech issue as a child, so had speech therapy. A speech therapist had been assigned to the primary school I attended as part of some government initiative…BUT I was her only pupil and was given far more time than warranted. In addition to that, there was only one form of speech therapy in those days - Received Pronunciation…or How to speak Queen’s English! Very UPPER CLASS!!! So I come across as a toff. It never occurred to me that I spoke differently to others in my family until my first boyfriend screamed at me for putting on a silly accent! Once you’ve been indoctrinated by this so-called therapy, you can’t get rid of it! From that moment on, I felt very much apart from my family. When being introduced to some people, you can just see their judgements forming…

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If I was introduced to myself I think I would describe myself as ‘aloof’ particularly after 8 months of shielding.
I don’t know if I would want to be my friend , probably not :laughing:

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@Primus1
…or like me I don’t court friendship :slightly_smiling_face:.

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I think I’m a friendly sort. The neighbours all chat to us, the postie, the window washer, and the bin men. And a lot of others when we stroll the dogs.

Can’t be all bad…:slight_smile:

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