Why I never had no relationship all my life?

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Yes,especially when I read how wrong everyone else is about everything :grinning:

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Absolutely Chilli, Iā€™m always thinking about a reply to an interesting post or a satisfactory answer to a questioning oneā€¦

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That is because ā€œpeopleā€ make you think, and that is a good thing. You learn more from people you disagree with, because even though you may never agree with them, you are, many times, left pondering why they believed / supported / did things they way do.

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The thing is working out if you disagree with someone, or are they being deliberately disagreeable just to make you think.

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45

They also make you angry, jealous, frustrated, worthless, patronised, inadequate, disappointed and generally peed offā€¦
People are best avoided in my experienceā€¦ :009:

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Read the consistencies in a personā€™s replies / posts, youā€™ll know if they are posting their views or patronizing.

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People are people, expect it, do not get caught up in the drama.

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Yep, after 75 years of mixing with them I think Iā€™ve pretty much sorted out the wheat from the chaffā€¦Senileā€¦Although there are still some surprises sometimesā€¦
:+1:

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One should be more surprised if one does not encounter the occasional surprise. :+1:

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Itā€™s about dealing with situations Foxy.
I find people fascinatingā€¦ well most of the time anyway :wink:

I still value my personal quiet time, nursing an old paperback and occasionally browsing a forum or two, wouldnā€™t have it any other way.
I can be very antisocial when I put my mind to it ! :slightly_smiling_face:

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Well, all I have to say, I am very social, once Iā€™ve had a couple of cups of coffee (with whisky :+1:) :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: Truthfully, Iā€™m very introverted.

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It was a bit ā€˜tongue in cheekā€™ when I said I avoid people Chilliā€¦
:nerd_face:
In company Iā€™m the life of the party (or a showoff according to Mrs Fox)
But the older I get the more quiet time I look forward to.
I also like meeting and getting to know people, and Iā€™ll accept all comers, I pride myself of being very tolerant, even with the most challenging ones.
I do get caught out occasionally thoughā€¦
:frowning_face:

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Best thing I did in 2002, jumping off the direct employment band wagon, people were seriously starting to get on my wick!

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