A London Red Bus, on the Number 7 route.
I was 16 when I left home and went to work in London.
I had never been there before and I didn’t know anyone there, so it was all new to me. I made friends with people at work and in the hostel where I lived but they were all acquaintances, rather than close friends.
After I’d been there about 6 months, I got chatting to a girl who sat next to me on the Number 7 bus, which travelled from East Acton to Oxford Street.
I was on my way to work at one end of Oxford Street and she was on her way to college at the other end of Oxford Street,
She was about 18 months older than me but we hit it off straight away, although we had very different backgrounds -
I was a Northern lass from a large and very poor family and dysfunctional household, a bit rough around the edges, who had to leave school at 16 and leave home to earn my way in the world.
She was a cosseted only child from a posh, privileged and comfortably circumstanced family and had been able to stay on at school until she was 18, and was being supported by her parents to study for a further two years at a college of fashion journalism.
We started off just chatting together whenever we saw each other on the bus, on the way to work and college, then began arranging to go places together at weekends, to explore London, visit art galleries, museums, exhibitions etc.
I think we were each fascinated by our different life experiences and wanted to learn from each other, then we found we had a lot of fundamental things in common and became firm friends.
Although we met in London and enjoyed visiting galleries and theatres together, neither of us wanted to settle down in London permanently.
We are both country souls at heart and prefer living in quiet rural areas and spending our leisure time exploring the countryside and supporting our local communities.
We got to know each other quite well for the year or so we were both in London together and spent lots of our leisure time together - but when we each left London to pursue our different careers, our paths diverged and we have never lived near to each other ever since.
We always kept in frequent touch with each other, though, sharing our news and thoughts in long letters.
After we each got married, we went to live in different countries for a while - and when we each returned to U.K., we were living at opposite ends of England - and still do.Throughout all our travels and moves, through all the different stages of our lives, we have kept in touch by regular letters and occasional visits to each other, a couple of times a year - and we have always been there for each other with emotional support and practical help if times got rough,
50 years later, we are still close friends - our regular letters have tailed off a bit and we have switched to long emails and phone calls instead - and we still visit each other a couple of times a year, usually staying for 3 or 4 days, or sometimes we plan a week’s country holiday together to explore another rural part of the U.K.