I type U G C…
He knows it too. He ain’t stupid
Or, he’s a creep, would be another way of putting it. 
I could PM you a few suggestions.
I wish I’d known about this a few decades ago! LOL! 
Seriously though, Pauline, I did read this thread quite carefully before posting. I felt you were being treated unfairly by certain members.
As you suggested earlier, there are absolutely no conflicts in your accounts anywhere, and even after knowing you for such a short while, I believe you!
And by the way, I can assure you that Harbal’s silly suggestion that I am:
Harbal wrote:
…attempt[ing] to manipulate a distressed woman…
is just plain daft. Harbal is just trying to sound like some kind of heroic white knight coming to rescue you from some wicked dark lord! Pathetic! LOL!
Indeed, if Harbal really believes that you are “distressed”, then he should be encouraging you to take action! 
As I said, write out your report/complaint, then leave it for a while. Writing it down, and talking about it here will probably make you feel a lot better.
I sure hope it has, m’dear!
Pauline:
He’s a lovely very empathetic man …
I don’t know about the “lovely”, but I do try to see things from various perspectives.
Well, you do know about matrices;-)
I have got such a great story about losing one’s temper … going through over 3 years of constant building works in the property next door. This actually means…The property was re built except for one wall, including a controversial extension.
Then they started on the Garage Plans which encroached our land by the measurements, then an Office was built to order…Garden was raised by about 2 feet, caused us to have more water flooding in our garden…and they could now see us in our Hot Tub, if they wanted too.
When a delivery Lorry parked and blocked my Access for goods for next door. I had a smart car but no where to park…I went ballistic…builds up and then one can just explode… but I won’t lose my temper because nobody has pressed my buttons…as yet…
children the playground is not here today…:surprised:…
Now I am thinking the time he came around to my back garden with any warning to tell us he wanted to put up a 2 metre fence which would be on his land…but it would mean we had NO LIGHT in our kitchen…He kept on and on until I threw a bucket of cold water over him…lol
He could not believe how cross he made me…
It was over 3 years…so a lot did happen…Pauline back to your thread…hopefully…
How am I supposed to know what action she should take? 
Hi ho silver. Save me, save me!
anyone for scrabble? marbles then…la boule:-D
More tea, vicar?
Your disc golf looked quite interesting, actually.
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then he should be encouraging you to take action! 
The thought of that is making me run for the hills, seriously, you must be joking…now I am “ extremely stressed”
On a completely different planet to me…
If anyone is stressed it’s him…only he don’t know it…he looks stressed out to the max…
Look at my face…no stress marks on it…it’s old but there is no stress etched in it.imo anyway.
Stress imo I can see etched into a face also bitterness.
Your face looks happy and peaceful…sorry off topic.
Aumonier the family name means Chaplain and makes Ancestry just as bad as a Jones/Smith sometimes…Coffee here, merci beaucoup
Oh but I do know it. I am living on a knife edge.
Reading this thread back, what I did I believe I noticed, a few who were opinionated, it’s not a criticism, just an observation imo…
In other words they were pushing their opinion onto me. insinuating that their opinion was right…and mine was wrong.
As they kept pushing their opinion.
So what I believe I did was defend my opinion…
As they were defending their opinion.
Quite interesting reading it back.
So we were all pushing our opinions onto each other. Believing our own opinion was the right one.
Then it started to get a little out of hand…because of the pushing…
I can’t believe the nerve of some people trying to defend their own opinion on someone else’s thread.
Do I have to dig out that link to my old thread “Opining and opinion” again? 
I don’t see how anyone can force you to, Dex.