It is of course possible to be reasonably honest, without sounding unreasonable to someone who cared about the dead person. So why say more than needs saying, especially when so many humans only hear what they want to hear anyhow?
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On a related topic, how would you like/expect people to say about you after you’ve pegged it?
I won’t be hearing it so they can say what they like .
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Obviously I wouldn’t know but I would like to think people speak fondly of me. If they speak nastily I’ll have to go and haunt them
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That sounds like fun 
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I woud expect people to be honest about me tbh,good or bad.
I know if someone said an untruth,some people would put them right on the spot,especially my family.