So I’m recently retired … early I think - just reached 60 and thought “why am I doing this?”. Worked since I was 16 with little time off to bring up my kids. So now it’s my turn. My life is my own … except for my needy parents 86 and 82. Not in the best of health so mum and dad need a bit of help. It’s tough but you know. I’m lucky to have them.