Remembrance Sunday and Armistice Day

I have posted this before, but I make no apologies for doing so again.

The men from my Mum’s side of the family were farming stock from the West Country of England, and many served in West Country regiments during WW1. They didn’t all come home.
The men from my Dad’s side of the family were builders and labourers. Two of them were pacifists. My great uncle Vic refused to fight, yet won a medal for bravery as a stretcher bearer. My granddad was a Quaker, yet I remember seeing a photo’ of him in an army uniform. Perhaps he too was a non-fighting hero, but nobody in our family ever spoke of The Great War.

Thanks to an old photo album, old letters, and the internet, I have pieced together some of their stories.

My great uncle William, Somerset Light Infantry, aged eighteen. Taken before he went to war. He looks nervous.

Aged nineteen, having been wounded and sent back to England to recover. Battle hardened and confident he looks now.

He died at Passchendaele, aged twenty, and has no known grave.

Today, I shall cry

Khaki cloth and Sam Brown belt,
Puttees caked in mud,
Men and shrapnel scream through the air,
The stench of death and blood.

Poised upon the firing step,
Where flowers once grew wild,
An old man’s eyes wearily look out,
From a soldier who is still but a child.

Wounded once, yet returned to battle,
Post cards home that he wrote,
Old enough to die in battle,
Yet not old enough to vote.

His brothers never speak of horrors seen,
Memories of their young brother grow dim,
Back home on the family farm,
No known grave to visit him.

His face upon an old postcard,
“By ‘eck Ma, I do look grim.”
Next the clock on mantlepiece,
Only my family remember him.

All across this land of ours,
Flags at half-mast fly,
Poppy red upon my breast,
For him today, I shall cry

The Blacksmith’s Song

The wind soughs through a broken window,
Cobwebs wave in the gentle breeze,
Dust motes float and sparkle in the air,
As white-hot iron once gleamed.

Birds fly in and out,
A missing roof tile their front door,
Mice on the floor sharing their world,
Scurrying and flapping adding soft sounds.

Tools hang lifeless on nails in old dry wood,
Tongs for holding, giant pliers for twisting,
Swages, sledges, and wedges,
Waiting for the hand that will never come.

Bars of wrought iron,
A broken iron gate awaiting repair,
A pile of coke, with shovel standing by,
Like a soldier waiting for orders it will never hear.

Leather bellows, split and cracked,
Lifeless like the hearth,
The fierce roar silenced,
No one now to stoke the fire.

The anvil lies cold and dead,
Like the man who once worked it,
His name on a plaque in a foreign land,
Along with the words, “No known grave.”

The forge now lies silent,
But if you listen hard,
You might hear a faint sound,
Like a music box playing in the next room.

If you listen harder still,
You might just hear the Blacksmith’s song,
Ringing clear and true like a bell,
The ringing song of hammer on iron.

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Red for the blood that was spilled.
Black for mourning of those that died.
Green for the new growth followed on the battlefields after the fighting stopped.
The leaf set at the eleven o’clock position for the time when the guns fell silent.

More to follow.

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Great uncle Ted, arrowed, somewhere in Egypt. I believe he was a member of the First Line Unit of the Royal Gloucestershire Hussars

A few of his mates.

Embarking for the horror that was Gallipoli.

I met him several times as a kid, but had no idea he had been a soldier.

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Whether they fought or not Fruitcake, you have memories of a very brave family, thanks for posting, and so appropriate today…
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I know it’s hypothetical and many say wars will never be fought like this now, but how many would answer the call if necessary?

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Great uncle Sam, arrowed, with some of his mates having just come straight from the front line. The Sandpipers was a Signals group within the Royal Gloucestershire Hussars. Although this was the same regiment as that of his brother Arthur, they fought in different theatres of war.

The inscription on the back, writ in pencil, postmarked 19th August 1916, and addressed to his sister, my Granny. It begins, “What do you think of this dirty little throng. I guess we look serious. We had this took the day we come from the trenches.”

I also met him but had no idea of what he went through. He fought in France, Belgium, and in the mountains of Italy. There, they fought from crevices in the rocks instead of trenches, where shell shrapnel was “enhanced” by rock fragments.
In the final battle, the allies pushed the enemy off the mountain, overrunning their supply lines and risked being flanked in the process. However, once their opponents started to retreat, the allies kept going, forcing their surrender and ending the war in Italy.
This is why Armistice Day in Italy is commemorated on the 4th of November.

Uncle Sam refers to one of his mates, Bowskill, so perhaps he was from the same area as my family and was known to my gran.

The Sandpipers

Bowskill, with flags in hand,
Uncle Sam on the radio,
Other names lost in the mud,
“Over the top,” it’s time to go.

They all came home, every man,
Some came back whole in body and mind,
Some came home broken but no signs without,
Some left all but their name behind.

Fighting, eating, sleeping in the mire,
A century on they slumber where they fell,
Names carved on stone or cast in bronze,
To remind us of their personal hell.

At eleven ack-emma, we remember them,
The War to end All Wars,
But there is always another call to arms,
To fight for another cause.

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My father and his two brothers were in the D-Day landings - one didn’t come back. Neither of them ever talked about their experiences - I only found out after he died when my mother mentioned it at his funeral. I find that the majority of that generation tend not to talk about their experiences and even when they do are modest about what they did, whilst praising the courage of those who didn’t come back

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My Lovely Cousin’s granddad served on a minesweeper during WW2. Although I knew him for many years, he never spoke of it either. Our youngest son carried his great-granddad’s medals in his pocket for luck when he took his exams. It seemed to have worked.

My Dad was the enigma. A Quaker and a pacifist, he became a conscientious objector when WW2 broke out. He went before a tribunal, not knowing if he would be jailed or put up against a wall and shot. Luckily he was granted exemption on religious grounds, but required to give up his position in a Building Society and became part of the Land Army, working a five acre small-holding in the grounds of a private school.
Aged twenty-two, he met my Mum who started in the school, aged sixteen, as a nursery nurse. They started dating and at some point after D-Day they went to the “flicks” to see a film. Newsreels of the war’s progress was shown that included footage of the death camps, and it completely changed my Dad. From that day on he decided there were some things that were so evil that it was right to take a life after all.
He tried to join up, but the war was being won so food production was more important than recruiting more soldiers.
After the war was over, and because he had volunteered, he was made to join the British Army so that those who had signed up “for the duration of the war only” could be demobilised and brought home.
He eventually left several years later, having been discharged due to injury sustained whilst leading new recruits through combat training, and went back to his old job.

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As you know, I never served, and my occupation would have been classed as “reserved,” had there been another war, but I did have the privilege of working alongside many who did see combat during WW2, and later got to visit many military bases here and overseas where I got to work alongside military service personnel, both domestic and foreign.

The thing I have found is that the few people who did speak of war, never considered themselves to be brave, but did it, not because it was required/expected of them, but because they felt it was their duty. To them, it was just the right thing to do.

We must also never forget the non-combatants who put themselves in danger to help out, as well as wives and mothers who stayed home to work the fields and factories, and bring up children, to ensure there was a home worth their men coming home to.

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My granddad on his warhorse during WW1. I’m told he had bright ginger hair, which is where I got mine, until it turned mostly pink. (I am not bald, I just have a very wide parting.)

He served in the Royal Horse artillery. Here he is with the rest of the gun crew and field piece.

He survived, emigrated to Australia in 1919 with other family members to start a farm under the UK Government’s Soldier Settler Scheme. He sent for his fiance, my Granny, three years later. She made her own wedding dress, had her banns read on the ship, then the pair married in Perth, WA, the day after she landed in Freemantle.

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These are fantastic accounts, Fruitcake. It’s remarakable how much knowlege and information you have going back to WWI.

I am every humbled awe by the people who participated in whichever way they could.

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I know they were known as men but to me i think of them as boys , so so young . I watched the remembrance service on tv last night bbc1 . I cried the whole hour . Only half a dozen or so old soldiers who fought are left , so humble . Such bravery.

To me just boys who gave their lifes for us , the horses , the animals.

No words :broken_heart:

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My Grandfather, Western Front

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Susan, I so deeply agree.

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