that will run its course which we have no control over but you can still make progress towards what and where you want to be
Very wise words! 
thank you, i have me moments lol
your welcome!
do you feel any better though?
Let’s just say I’m getting there , I guess things happen for a reason, I wonder why sometimes but have to move forward !
things do happen for a reason whether good or bad we never really know until we get where we aiming for then we may look back and realise what the reason was
Yes I think you have something there, I will probably look back at what’s happened to me over the last year and think mmmm maybe I understand and it w become easier and I will pick myself up !! Sorry gone a bit woeful all of a sudden!
oh soz didnt mean to make you feel bad
Oh don’t worry you haven’t!! Just sometimes I think of the what if’s but realising probably best not to think that ! Live each day as it comes , small steps!!
ok, thats natural to think like that, we all do but it wont change anything now, n yep small steps big achievements, one day at a time forward thinking, you will get there just believe in yourself… thats all me therapy bit done lol
anyway now i made you feel like crap how you doing… lol
Very good therapy , it’s made me chuckle!! That’s what people are often say to me, believe in myself but I have struggled w that for a very long time but I’m starting to do it!!
Heehee!! You haven’t!!
shucks thnx ,i can relate to feeling the same so i basically saying to you what i felt and was told and it certaunly helped me as i coild of easily said sod it all and gave up but thats the easy way out, now i have hurdles like everyone but i just take it as it comes ad deal with it and move on, tomorrow is another day
er plz excuse spelling lol:blush:
Well it’s definitely good advice, I think I was quite strong last year considering I just kept going and the days that I seem to crumble seem to becoming less, I still have quite a hurdle to get over but I will meet if head on no doubt then crumble then get up !
anyway suzie i off to look on buzz50 site, you take care and hope i made you feel bit better n look forward to chatting again soon,or you can mail me …night night
Yes you have made me feel better! Be nice to chat again, I will drop you a mail maybe .
Can tell I dot know what I’m doing on this site, just tried to mail you but it won’t let me!