If you could go back to any point in your life, when would you choose?
Not necessarily to ‘start over’ again (tho that’s fine too) but just to go back to that moment, maybe because you miss it or have a fond memory of it or because it was the happiest you have been or the happiest or most special time of your life…
1). 20 years ago when I first met my wife, long before she decided to start cheating on me. 2). And then there were the days together with my son, before he decided to grow up. Days long gone. Long, long gone.
And, how would we know (guess) what to expect, what’s coming up next? it’s better to keep all this information locked in the sheet that locked in yer head
I’ve been playing some Neil Young from the early 70’s ('72-'74), reading the lyrics, singing it to myself, really takes me back … young, free, single, uncomplicated.
I miss the days when I could go out on my Bike , those summer days when we packed a picnic , We couldn’t afford a car at the end of the 70s and for 10 years our only mode of transport was a Bike for myself , hubby and 5yr old daughter .
And again when we could afford a car , I would plan a day out in the Peak District walking the hills ,sometimes at the side of a brook we would stop to rest and eat our Ham Salad before carrying on …the day would end with the hour and half ride back with the latest top of the pops blaring out me singing along .
History repeated again when my Son came along and we gave him the same quality time we gave our daughter , bike rides , picnics, walks .
A good time can be had on very little money .
My husbands ashes are now scattered in those hills among the heather ,where one day my ashes will be scattered
I would go back if I could go back knowing what I know now. It’s only these last seventy four years that have made me into the person that I am today, so it would have to be a sort of time travel having still experienced all the things that my life has offered so far.
I loved the simplicity of the late fifties and early sixties. No cars, no phones, and no computers.
Focusing my life on family, friends and loved ones with no distractions. Very little news from outside my community, and a very close community at that. Days at school followed by long adventures out in the country and games played around the kitchen table. Homework was unheard of, and education consisted of reading, writing, arithmetic and some religious instruction. Too much education is a dangerous thing, and it projects people above their station in life. Makes folk too bolshy…Hence the attitude of kids today. Being bolshy in those days earned you a clip round the ear…
Yes, that resonates with me Eliza. When I was seventeen I bought a bike from a department store in Oxford Street although I can’t remember which one. I was working as a sales assistant in the audio department of Boots the Chemist flagship store in Regent Street at the time. I used to get paid cash weekly in those days, one Friday the brown envelope contained a rebate of some sort. Hey, I was a rich seventeen year old!
Loved it to bits, it served me well. I’d go out cycling round London with my buddies and a bit further afield too.
I wouldn’t want to risk cycling around central London these days!
Very nice bike Chilli, the frame looks exactly the same as the frame on my bike.
I bought mine in the late seventies from a second hand shop for 11 quid. The bloke had done it up for a work bike but I could see it was the frame of a racing bike so I restored it and I ride it today…