I always think it’s nice to get a card, then a couple of small things, like nice chocolates and a plant perhaps, if she doesn’t like flowers, or gift box of toiletries, if you can get some with a “relax” theme it’s fun or scented candles
Then give her the rest in vouchers so she can choose something she likes, I think John Lewis vouchers are good if you’ve got one close for her to spend them in
Why not get her a Heritage or Ancestry DNA kit…I think you can get them for about £40 so that leaves you £10 for flowers or chocolates. I did my kit about a year ago and I still get regular updates on people I’m related to all over the world its really interesting…the gift that keeps giving
If she has a garden how about gardening tokens or something for the garden
Or maybe a voucher for her favourite pub or restaurant.
What about a John Lewis token she can please herself then .
Finding the right present for anyone can be a nightmare, especially birthdays and Christmas. But when the ideas run out, an Amazon voucher comes in handy.