I went on a large cruise ship once. I can’t remember the name of it but it was one of the P&O cruise ships.
A month’s cruise, setting off from Southampton, across the lumpy bumpy Bay of Biscay, stopping off in Portugal, then on to cruise around the Caribbean Islands.
The facilities were all excellent. Our cabin was comfortable and spacious, with a good sized balcony - but the sea was a long way down from our 12th floor level!
The restaurants were spotless and the food was delicious.
(It was a bit off-putting to discover they’d had an outbreak of Noravirus on board during the cruise previous to ours. The hand hygiene regime on board was extensive and the ritual of using hand gel at every doorway and at the entrances and exits to every part of the ship was a constant reminder that your trip may end up with you being confined to cabin with a nasty infectious tummy bug!” - this cruise was long before Covid reared its ugly head)
There was too many people for my liking - I’m not keen on crowds of people - although all the other passengers I got chatting to were very nice individually and I struck up some pleasant and interesting acquaintanceships with several passengers during the course of our journey.
I enjoyed some of the trips we had on some of the islands we stopped at but our stops were all too brief. I didn’t feel I got much of a flavour of the islands we visited. I hardly got to speak to any of the people who lived there and I would have liked to spend more time in each place.
There was just not nearly enough time on each island to explore much - it seemed such a waste to spend so much time sailing to a destination then only being allowed one short day there - by the time we disembarked, we only had about 5 hours before we had to be back on board, then were setting off to cruise to the next island.
The cruising time in between our stops was quite boring - it was mostly about eating and drinking and lazing around. I’m used to sea cruising on a small yacht, crewed by just 2 of us, so there’s always plenty of things to do and the time flies by - and if we spend the time and effort to sail to an island, I like to moor up there for at least a few days and nights to explore the place.
On board a large liner, the promenade decks are so high above the water, it felt more like I was staying in a hotel than on a sailing trip. I didn’t feel connected to the sea - and there’s only so many times you can walk round and round the decks for some fresh air - I felt like a caged animal, wanting to get out!
I spent a lot of the daytime when we were at sea in the gym - fortunately, the gym was fabulous, with all modern equipment and it was the least populated place on the ship! Very few passengers used the gym, so when I felt the need to escape from being surrounded by lots of people, the gym was my favourite spot.
We were never moored up anywhere overnight, so never got to spend an evening ashore. Every evening had to be spent aboard the ship. I’m not that fond of the type of “music hall / variety show” type of entertainment they put on in the evenings and the casinos did not appeal to me, so after enjoying the delicious dinners they served, the rest of the evenings were a bit of an endurance test.
So all in all, it was a bit like the curate’s bad egg - “good in parts” !
I won’t be going on that sort of cruise again.