Doctors - do you trust them?

I have always had complete faith in Doctors until this happened. My brother in law has had a sore throat and a one sided headache for several weeks. His Doctor had prescribed antibiotics and painkillers. Several days later and no improvement, stronger antibiotics and painkillers were given. Another week later yet another prescription for further meds. Last weekend he was so ill an ambulance was called and along came a mobile Doc on a motorbike who examined him and said he urgently needed to see an Ear Nose & Throat specialist. Monday morning his daughter phoned various hospitals in Kent until she finally found one that had a bed. Later that same day he was told he had Throat Cancer. Do we trust our Doctors? I must admit my faith has been somewhat dented.

That’s appalling ! So sorry that just isn’t right and shouldn’t be happening.

I think Cancer must be one of the most difficult to diagnose in patient for GPs,in my Fathers case he was treated for stomach Ulcer for a year it turned out to be stomach cancer,it had spread to his liver too ,MIL also was mis diagnosed .So perhaps Gps need more training in spotting this desease.

The consultant that is now treating my BIL said this growth was wrapped around his tonsils and couldn’t understand how any Doctor could fail to see it. He also suggested his wife should seek legal advice.

Since im from the US rather than the UK I would have to say that here I feel alot of doctors are in the medical profession for $$$ rather than the desire to help people. I have found it difficult to find a doctor I trust since most seem in a hurry to get you in and out. My current doc is ok but still lookin

Considering the reputation the NHS has, I consider myself very lucky, from the staff at the GP surgery to the hospital, every one a winner. I think that standards vary from region to region and even from department to department within a hospital.

Several days later and after a Tracheotomy and a feeding tube into his stomach the Oncologist has said this tumour is Inoperable and Untreatable. He has only a matter of weeks and that is only if a Chest Infection doesn’t get him first. It also came to light that he had been seeing his own GP for months. Almost a year in fact. How on earth could his GP let it go on for so long just prescribing antibiotics and painkillers.

So sorry to hear that :frowning: my prayers are with him.

That is so terrible to hear - unfortunately, not the first nor last - this doctor is not credible at all - truly shocking …
So sad for you and the family involved especially your Brother in law and your Sister …

Oh matey, that is despicable!!! - yes there is a good case for medical negligence here.

Sorry to read the update on your BIL ,EZ Rider, sometimes what life throws at you is so unfair .

What a terrible injustice done to these people. Had this man been treated early on this could have been prevented and now he will lose his life and his wife lose her husband. Thats exactly the problem with some doctors…they are happy to take your money without providing the care that is expected. Terrrible terrible thing to happen. Many years ago our neighbor developed a cough and went to the doctor. Was treated for bronchitis. Never got well…went back and forth for a year just to finally find out it was lung cancer all along.

The latest update regarding my BIL…He has been seen by another Oncologist who after a further scan says that he is much stronger now and the cancer is not as severe as they at first thought. They are currently discussing the possibility of either Chemo, Radio Therapy, or even an operation to remove the growth. These options will be discussed next Monday. Needless to say we are all feeling cautiously optimistic at the moment.

Thats ‘very’ encouraging news EZ - hope he is feeling positive now, that will help - good wishes to him x

Where there was darkness, theres now light at the end of the tunnel, I’m pleased for him and hopefully it will have a good outcome

:wink: I have a lovely doctor, although very rarely see him, as I keep away as much as is possible.

Best wishes for you and your D/H , Eliza .
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I trust my doctor completely,he was the one who saw Jenny and realised it was bad. A dentist and another doctor missed the signs of mouth cancer.

When Jenny passed away he wrote me a hand written letter saying how sorry he was and could he take me through the PM? Not easy for either of us but he has this mix of professional with a heart

Same here Apricot, last time I saw her she was giving out to me for leaving it so long, I couldn’t understand that, the fact that I didn’t need to see her meant she was doing a great job and I said that to her, but she didn’t understand that either, to my way of thinking the perfect doctor is the doctor with no patients…he’s cured them all…:slight_smile:

A doctor with no patients is highly unlikely but a doctor with no patience? now I’m sure that’s very possible!