See my above post…
PS:- When do you want it Primus…
Soon, foxy, wife’s birthday coming up soon and I’ve got to take her somewhere nice, she deserves to be spoilt
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I have 2 friends. I hardly ever see them.
My BH and the dog.
In my experience women stay more friendly with school chums than men.
I agree with the Brit study re friends. When I visit England I am amazed at how closed faced people are when out and about. No one smiles at each other , nod hello when passing on the street, or in line at stores.
Here in the states we speak to most folks we see, just a hello, or small talk while in line. We are more open to inviting a smile from others, strangers or acquaintances.
I have many true long time friends, we count on each other for support, driving for appointments, out to lunch weekly, or a walk in the park together to catch up. Even phone calls to share our good news or bad days. Friends made decades ago, or even classmates.
I am fortunate indeed.
I live in city by the sea on the south coast , it’s very friendly.
Yes there areas I wouldn’t go to at night but isn’t that the wherever .
In fact I wouldn’t go out alone after 9pm anywhere in the U.K. 
Yes I have 3 very good friends and several neighbours who have become my new friends
Spoilt on a fiver Primus?
Here’s a twenty, push the boat out…
I have 2 true friends who i trust 100%.
I have friends unfortunately all spread over the world .
Still the dog is still here 
Yeah, I have friends, and the thing is I find that I’m making new ones.
Sometimes you make friends unexpectedly, no apps or Facebook involved… it’s called life
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Wow thanks foxy, now I can get her two things, just have to decide between cheese and onion, or plain…
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a few years ago i met an old pal from football days his face lit up and he kept shaking my hand, he said ‘many years ago you told me that i might be lucky if i had five true friends in my entire life, i need you to know you are high up on my five’
and i’ve never seen him since.
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I don’t have as many friends as I used to, a few have died but others I have just neglected and I feel quite guilty about that.
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Although I have moved house and county several times since leaving London as a growing youth, I have always had good friends because of who I am (born a Jew) and how I mix with those friends. We have an organisation called the JSCN which helps hold us all together and offer important help when help is needed, when not residing in a large city or town. Observant and non-observant alike, we are bound together by the sense of community formed by the JSCN because we belong together.
Mark Knopfler wrote ‘Brothers in Arms’ and to me, that just about sums up my feelings too.
Last lines 
But it’s written in the starlight
And every line in your palm
We’re fools to make war
On our brothers in arms 
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I think you are right Right Now. I am a cruiser and always enjoy the American ships more because the fellow cruisers are always so much more sociable than those I’ve encountered on British ones.
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“Friend” is a very interesting word. Same as “responsibility”. Everybody understands it in a different way. Many years ago I had a very small, tiny little book about “friendship”. One of its statements was (hope I translate it correctly from German) “Good friends are rare, however the demand is very low”.
It took me long to understand it. At “our” age of >50 it seems to me that the most people in my area do not need a “real friend” but rather a “nice weather friend”.
In another book I found the expression (which I like): “to be a (genuine) friend, you must be able to be an enemy”.
That is how I personally see friendship: if your friend makes a mistake or needs urgent advice, it is reasonable to be honest and tell him/her your opinion.
But as I said, the demand for that seems to be low. Therefore the third expression from that friendship book: Someone who claims to have many friends normally has none.
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I only have two close friends and one of them is my wife. I’m not disappointed by that though, that’s the way I’ve engineered things. I find having too many friends tends to weigh heavily on me. I spend too much time trying to solve their problems and it leaves me feeling drained and my mental health suffers. It took many years to work this out but I’m so glad I did.
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Sometimes it’s best to ditch friends that have become too demanding or flakey .
They are too wearing .
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The plants are my friends! If you interact with nature you have plenty of good friends!
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