Microsoft monitors how W.10 is used if you allow it but they don’t tell you what programs to use or how to use them. All they want to do is to make sure the OS is up to date. I don’t see this as controlling. Quite a good service in fact.
System and software updates are just a fact of computer life with all platforms and software. Updates for any platform can have glitches. Even so, I’ve rarely experienced any with Windows 10 and see no reason to avoid updates. As pointed out though, those wary of new updates can always defer them until a later date.
I don’t have any experience of Mac computers and their updates but a little research brought up this page…
Android as well (plus it has the smaller updates between major ones)…
I often use Linux Mint (Cinnamon), so can show a few of the update logs this has. Note the frequency of them. Updates don’t have to be done but accepting them does mean the system is being constantly honed and looked after. That’s all to the good with any platform as far as I can see.
Linux is pretty good for those who dislike Microsoft but if switching to avoid updates, it probably won’t be found any better. Mint is based on Ubuntu and that’s why this shows up a lot in the lists below. Linux updates show the updated files separately so the lists look large. However, they are fairly quickly processed, although some updates can be slower than others…
Commit Log for Mon Sep 21 16:14:21 2020
Upgraded the following packages:
linux-generic (5.4.0.47.50) to 5.4.0.48.51
linux-headers-generic (5.4.0.47.50) to 5.4.0.48.51
linux-image-generic (5.4.0.47.50) to 5.4.0.48.51
Installed the following packages:
linux-headers-5.4.0-48 (5.4.0-48.52)
linux-headers-5.4.0-48-generic (5.4.0-48.52)
linux-image-5.4.0-48-generic (5.4.0-48.52)
linux-modules-5.4.0-48-generic (5.4.0-48.52)
linux-modules-extra-5.4.0-48-generic (5.4.0-48.52)
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Commit Log for Wed Sep 23 16:07:05 2020
Upgraded the following packages:
busybox-initramfs (1:1.30.1-4ubuntu6.1) to 1:1.30.1-4ubuntu6.2
busybox-static (1:1.30.1-4ubuntu6.1) to 1:1.30.1-4ubuntu6.2
firefox (80.0.1+linuxmint1+ulyana) to 81.0+linuxmint1+ulyana
firefox-locale-en (80.0.1+linuxmint1+ulyana) to 81.0+linuxmint1+ulyana
libc-bin (2.31-0ubuntu9) to 2.31-0ubuntu9.1
libc6 (2.31-0ubuntu9) to 2.31-0ubuntu9.1
libc6-dbg (2.31-0ubuntu9) to 2.31-0ubuntu9.1
libc6:i386 (2.31-0ubuntu9) to 2.31-0ubuntu9.1
locales (2.31-0ubuntu9) to 2.31-0ubuntu9.1
python3-apport (2.20.11-0ubuntu27.8) to 2.20.11-0ubuntu27.9
python3-problem-report (2.20.11-0ubuntu27.8) to 2.20.11-0ubuntu27.9
secureboot-db (1.5) to 1.6~20.04.1
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Commit Log for Thu Sep 24 14:35:11 2020
Upgraded the following packages:
alsa-ucm-conf (1.2.2-1ubuntu0.3) to 1.2.2-1ubuntu0.4
aptdaemon (1.1.1+bzr982-0ubuntu32.1) to 1.1.1+bzr982-0ubuntu32.2
aptdaemon-data (1.1.1+bzr982-0ubuntu32.1) to 1.1.1+bzr982-0ubuntu32.2
finalrd (5) to 6~ubuntu20.04.1
fonts-opensymbol (2:102.11+LibO6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 2:102.11+LibO6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libjuh-java (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libjurt-java (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-avmedia-backend-gstreamer (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-base (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-base-core (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-base-drivers (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-calc (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-common (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-core (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-draw (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-gnome (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-gtk3 (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-common (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-de (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-en-gb (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-en-us (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-es (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-fr (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-it (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-pt (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-pt-br (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-ru (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-zh-cn (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-help-zh-tw (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-impress (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-java-common (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-l10n-de (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-l10n-en-gb (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-l10n-en-za (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-l10n-es (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-l10n-fr (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-l10n-it (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-l10n-pt (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-l10n-pt-br (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-l10n-ru (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-l10n-zh-cn (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-l10n-zh-tw (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-math (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-ogltrans (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-pdfimport (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-sdbc-hsqldb (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-style-colibre (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-style-tango (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libreoffice-writer (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libridl-java (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libuno-cppu3 (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libuno-cppuhelpergcc3-3 (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libuno-purpenvhelpergcc3-3 (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libuno-sal3 (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libuno-salhelpergcc3-3 (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libunoil-java (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
libunoloader-java (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
python3-aptdaemon (1.1.1+bzr982-0ubuntu32.1) to 1.1.1+bzr982-0ubuntu32.2
python3-aptdaemon.gtk3widgets (1.1.1+bzr982-0ubuntu32.1) to 1.1.1+bzr982-0ubuntu32.2
python3-uno (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
uno-libs-private (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
ure (1:6.4.5-0ubuntu0.20.04.1) to 1:6.4.6-0ubuntu0.20.04.1
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Commit Log for Sun Sep 27 12:06:41 2020
Upgraded the following packages:
gir1.2-packagekitglib-1.0 (1.1.13-2ubuntu1) to 1.1.13-2ubuntu1.1
gstreamer1.0-packagekit (1.1.13-2ubuntu1) to 1.1.13-2ubuntu1.1
libpackagekit-glib2-18 (1.1.13-2ubuntu1) to 1.1.13-2ubuntu1.1
packagekit (1.1.13-2ubuntu1) to 1.1.13-2ubuntu1.1
packagekit-tools (1.1.13-2ubuntu1) to 1.1.13-2ubuntu1.1
shim (15+1533136590.3beb971-0ubuntu1) to 15+1552672080.a4a1fbe-0ubuntu2
shim-signed (1.40.3+15+1533136590.3beb971-0ubuntu1) to 1.40.4+15+1552672080.a4a1fbe-0ubuntu2
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Commit Log for Mon Sep 28 16:48:01 2020
Upgraded the following packages:
base-files (20.0.0) to 20.0.1
cifs-utils (2:6.9-1) to 2:6.9-1ubuntu0.1
imagemagick (8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11) to 8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11.1
imagemagick-6-common (8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11) to 8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11.1
imagemagick-6.q16 (8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11) to 8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11.1
libimage-magick-perl (8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11) to 8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11.1
libimage-magick-q16-perl (8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11) to 8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11.1
libmagick+±6.q16-8 (8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11) to 8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11.1
libmagickcore-6.q16-6 (8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11) to 8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11.1
libmagickcore-6.q16-6-extra (8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11) to 8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11.1
libmagickwand-6.q16-6 (8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11) to 8:6.9.10.23+dfsg-2.1ubuntu11.1
libsane (1.0.29-0ubuntu5.1) to 1.0.29-0ubuntu5.2
libsane-common (1.0.29-0ubuntu5.1) to 1.0.29-0ubuntu5.2
libuv1 (1.34.2-1ubuntu1) to 1.34.2-1ubuntu1.1
sane-utils (1.0.29-0ubuntu5.1) to 1.0.29-0ubuntu5.2
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Commit Log for Wed Sep 30 14:05:58 2020
*Upgraded the following packages:
gdb (9.1-0ubuntu1) to 9.2-0ubuntu1~20.04
gdbserver (9.1-0ubuntu1) to 9.2-0ubuntu1~20.04
skypeforlinux (8.64.0.81) to 8.65.0.76