Aggro who needs it:!: There’s a well used phrase “Life is too short and too fraught” and as most of us grow older it holds more meaning. It’s very nice when we can enjoy some friendly communications without hassle.
We all have our favourite things and we are all different, some of us get out of bed the wrong way at times and are a bit crabby, but we get over it and try not to snap at people. This is where we are lucky if we have a husband or partner as we can take it out of them, what a good arrangement this is.
I too am pleased to be among such polite and understanding people. With age comes wisdom (usually) and this forum has it. Thanks folks.
well i tried using my intuition to choose a site that i might find like minded caring people, - hope this is it. 
I think you’ve found it June - a few tiffs - but not often :-p