Sometimes granny’s girl, eat your veg and meat first before indulging in pudding, do your work first before you relax…… enjoy the anticipation and feeling you’ve earned it
And sometimes the decadent spoiled brat, enjoy the good stuff now, in case you never get round to it!
I wonder if it depends on one’s family situation. If I saved my treat in the refrigerator to savor when I got home, my brother would have eaten it by the time I got there. That hasn’t stopped me from being a save the best for last person.
Of course they go together. It’s definitely right to show restraint and when selecting opt for the finest available. It doesn’t mean selecting the finest is indulging oneself with gluttony.