On line “friends” are, at best, acquaintances. (If you meet them that is a different matter)
Recently a Youtube content character called Camo Dave passed away unexpectantly while it was sad and messed up my daily Youtube habits it wasn’t the end of the world for me (though it was for him)
Everyone on here is a real person but will be putting forward some kind of facade which they wish to project for some reason or another and not always for egregious purposes. I think this reflects the way most people are face to face anyway which is why I’m sure many of us are sometimes surprised to hear about new unknown things about our friends at their funerals, which seem to be happening a bit too often for my liking nowadays.
So I think our online friends are real friends since although we may never meet they fill something useful within us, make us think, tell us how it is warts and all, support us as they can and so on. What else does someone have to do to be a friend, apart from bake us a cake, meet up for lunch and go Dutch with the bill?
Yes they are…and I’m currently very worried about my friend from Ukraine who fled Kyiv on day two of the war and has been incommunicado ever since.
They obviously have other things to worry about than contacting me but I’d like to know if they are okay and where they are.
My friend is alive and in the Ukrainian army working in a non-combat role in a supposedly bomb proof bunker in Kyiv.
Her apartment isn’t bombproof though!
Yes I would mostly say they are. Before my accident last week I couldn’t have answered this, but since the accident you guys have been so good to me with your messages of care and support.
It made me quite weepy at times. Thankyou all sooooo much.