Why do some women cover their breasts when I pass them in the street. I am not aware that I am leering at them and sometimes feel offended if they feel that way. Also I feel apologetic towards them if they believe I am acting that way. Maybe it is my elderly age and I fit a stereotype.
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I don’t get that ,I’ve become invisible.I suppose that’s better. 
Some questions are better left unasked.
Here is a question. Asked and Unmasked.
For anyone who has followed the TV Series’
“SAS Who Dares Wins”
Who Is The most Resilient? Males or Females.
Actions Explained.
In the 12 Series, 5 Males & 7 Females. [With No short cuts or Favours]. Were the Finalists. >>
Be Very Afraid M8T’s 
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If this is your biggest issue to be concerned about, then I suggest you find other avenues to focus your attention on.
No pun intended but…
I’m a little puzzled why you should connect that with you specifically?
Are you not very tall and about the right height for a woman to mistakenly feel your line of sight is beaming toward them?
they might just be a bit chilly at this time of year.
Subtle … but so true.
Are you in U.K. or in some hot climate elsewhere?!
It is a cold and rainy February here in U.K. so I doubt anyone is out there in the street baring their breasts, be they men or women!
Maybe your fantasies are running away with you - or maybe you spend too much time gawping at women in the street and they feel your gaze and feel obliged to pull their coats and cardigans tighter around them because you are staring at them!
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In David’s defence, it’s becoming illegal to even look in the same direction of an attractive woman.
And if caught whistling at an attractive woman would invite a gaol sentence…
However, in Yorkshire you would be swore at if you don’t acknowledge a pretty girl, and some girls would even resort to violence if you resisted their advances, God I’ve tried!
Why would any man think that an attractive young woman would want to receive wolf whistles or lecherous gazes from a bloke in the 50+ age range? - when I was a young woman, I would have thought they were being creepy or pervy.
As for what you say about Yorkshire women, Foxy, I think it’s a load of rubbish - Get over yerself, lad - I’m a Yorkshire woman, living in Yorkshire, and what you have written about Yorkshire women is just not true! 
Rest assured Boot, I would never have wolf whistled you, I would not wanted to have massaged your ego, no disrespect intended.
Thank you, Spitty. I wouldn’t have wolf whistled at you either! 
Same with me, women walk towards me and pull their top front together before they are even close. Think it must be age thinking of some sort.
Good, we understand each other, but, its your loss 
Sometimes when one no longer gives a shite. there is a conversation to be had, 
Has an interim post disappeared?
I assume I look like the perve stereotype. Elderly, bald and chubby.
Naa, you are not alone.
Body language; covering of the chest/collar bone/neck (vulnerable areas of our anatomy) indicates discomfort. Clothing, arms, hair, hands, a book etc. whatever they are using to cover this area. All are an indication that they are receiving a limbic brain signal to protect vital organs or vulnerable spots (the heart, the throat). They are uncomfortable and something you are doing is coming across as a subconscious threat. What is your body language saying? Are you standing in threatening stance? Where are your hands? Are they visible? Also feeling defensive; that vibe comes across and is probably not helpful. This isn’t personal. This is a limbic brain reaction developed since the existence of mankind for safety. Humans are still animals wired for survival, even though society is changing rapidly around us, our instincts have remained intact.
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It’s alright boot, lots of people mistake me for a younger person…
PS:- I’ll send Doris round with the tattoos who empties the bins round here and see if stands up to your ‘average Yorkshire Woman’ vision…Providing she and her mates are not down the gym pumping iron…
