Same old same old is always going to get boring. Variety is and always was the spice of life.
Having ‘Sex’ just sounds a bit clinical to me, it sounds like you should just shake hands after a session and turn over and go to sleep. At least in the old days, the fag afterwards was something to look forward to…
That was OK, providing both were smokers
Some men never listen
And others never learn
But why this man did as he did
Only he will ever know
He knew he was walking
Into a waiting trap
Neatly set up for him
With a bait so richly wrapped
Getting back on topic…
Maybe it’s got something to do with women’s natural desires? In the book Civilised to Death he talks about how our ancestors went about having children - they didn’t have one-partner ties, instead, women would sleep with all the men who’s attributes she wanted for that particular child. A funny guy if she wanted the child to be funny, mixed in with a strong one to have his particular features, a clever one too maybe. In other words she would have multiple partners, and the child didn’t ‘belong’ to any single parent or couple, but became the child of the community*.
*He goes on too - talking about they’ve studied hunter gatherer tribes and where when a child cries it is picked up within 7 seconds… and not put back down until it stops crying (the family unit take it in turns to hold the child). He contrasts that with what happens in the West, where babies are quickly put in their own rooms and many end up crying all night. He says is there any wonder why people in the West crave attention.
Maybe the modern two parent family unit is just another form of control - most govts and religions just want people to breed soldiers n slaves, soldiers n slaves…
multiple partners would’t be very healthy though,would it?
Definitely not. If I had ever had multiple partners my wifeling would have killed me.
To “Bonk” or not to Bonk, is that the question?
That familiar sound of the headboard hitting the wall.
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My wife says sex is better on holiday
Not the best postcard I’ve ever got…
Not a problem if she is in Bancock
Freddie Starr on sex
Women get bored with sex.
Because we get bored with the same old same old .
Off topic. …Think men are more likely to cheat .
I think Women Cheat more, never heard of a geezer faking an orgasm
No …men just plough on regardless ! Yawn
I think men are more likely to cheat on a relationship
God loves a trier.
Perhaps that’s because sex is just another thing to do for a man, like reading a book or listening to music…Whereas a woman needs to love her bloke…
I suppose for every cheating man there has to be a woman encouraging it. I would expect most single women would know of the marriage and some women are married themselves.