“Is getting older more freeing or more challenging?”

If your old and rich, you don’t need to drive the Aston Martin, you just have to ogle it and think how clever you have been.

Make it a Morgan then Spitfire, Not “Morgan a suitable case for treatment”, even if there is a close resemblance.

If yer can’t drive anything, because of age, it might as well be an Aston.

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Yer Spit, then you could bring me flowers.

Blimey, that’s a Grave Yard :icon_wink:

For me, it’s both. Getting older has been freeing in the sense that I worry far less about pleasing others and more about what truly matters. At the same time, it can be more challenging physically and emotionally. I think the real shift is learning to work with those limits rather than fighting them.

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We Can’t control Fate.
But we can pass on the Wisdom accumulated.
Ignore History. AND The Future is Doomed.
So said. Con-Fu-Cius. :wink:

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If only I’d had the time and resources I have now in my youth.

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Youth are The Formative Years. Pre Puberty.
Good Bad or Indifferent…
How Parents & those allowed to associated with.
Peers Priests or Patrons. Conduct Themselves.
Become imbedded. Sublimatetive Or Depositional.
To what extent.
Dependent on The Chosen Adult Environment.
AI. Isn’t One of Them.

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What I miss most is the lost financial benefits my own abilities once provided me with.

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Live is lived back to front. When you were young, imagine what you’d do if you’d the insights, knowledge and money behind you to do the best you could do… Instead you got the insecurities, the lack of resources, the dumbness of youth. Its a miracle any of us came out in one piece.

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Must be why some grew up to be such miserable old sods with delusions of granduer. I just loved life in the swinging 60s.

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I’m glad I was brought up in a time of innocence.
I know what it’s like with no smartphone, no internet, and no sat nav.
I’ve enjoyed retrieving information from a book, and reading a map, or just being out in the country and out of communication with the world.
Most people who use the internet don’t realise the power they have in their hand, they don’t understand it, and it fills their heads with mush, preventing them from having a life they should be experiencing.

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Shush Foxy, lets keep the club elite.

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I sure do agree with that, and today’s life lived through the internet by youngsters saddens me. Not just youngsters, but will those who have spent all their working lives sitting at desks and staring at screens reach old age or will today’s average age of dying return to previous times?

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Yes, It will be interesting to see how future generations develop in older age Davey.
Already we can a see a vast change in younger people with more obesity, suicide and mental health issues. The need to live up to other peoples expectations that they see on social media and the TV with reality shows and even soaps.
There was never all of this input back when we were young, you were only concerned with events that happened in your own community, now with 24 hour rolling news services we are taking on the troubles of the world. Climate issues, protests, violence and aggression, racism, and gender issues. All the things that were never, or rarely heard of.

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When I was in my 30s I had an accident and damaged my knee. The hospital Drs told me I’d get arthritis and would need a replacement when I was older. I had one when I was 58 and couldn’t bend it as far as the hospital would like. They tried to bend it under anaesthetic but that didn’t help. I’m now 74 (2 weeks tomorrow :crying_cat_face:) and am on strong painkillers and can’t run and even walking can be a struggle. So that’s challenging but the rest of my life is fine. After a divorce I thought I’d be on my own forever but I met someone at an over 40s singles Christmas holiday and we’ve just had our 30th engagement anniversary. :smiley_cat::smiley_cat::smiley_cat:We’re modern and didn’t want to get married

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That sounds like a stuck locked toilet door!!

Permanently Engaged :grinning:

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:joy_cat::joy_cat::joy_cat::joy_cat::joy_cat: