Morti, you forgot -
Bashful and Shy. . . . . 
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Stubborn
Helpful
Annoying
Loyal
weird humour
A dry sense of humour
Warm
Approachable
Blunt
Impatient
Thoughtful
Unless itās before:
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I really donāt know because we only see ourselves as we think we are, or would like to be.
We can never see ourselves through others eyes.
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Yep, thatās why summing up is pointless.
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I like to think I amā¦
Kind.
Friendly.
Patient.
Talkative, but can listen too. 
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Mups,
Through my eyes you are warm, friendly, helpful and supportive.
But I think you might be brutal to anyone who oversteps your mark.
Who is Mark, anyway?
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I can answer yours summer
Kind
Warm
Caring
Thoughtful
Friendly
I have so many more positive words for you my dear friend but Pauline asked for only 5
My kind of gal
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Thankyou for your kind words, Ted.
As for the last part, āBrutalā - moi?
After many years of being on my own, if I havenāt learned to stand up for myself now, I never will. 
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But surely, we know ourselves better than anyone else does? so will agree to disagree on that one.
Example, Iām passionateā¦a friend says, no youāre notā¦how would they know?
Iām me 
Iām not sure how I would describe myself!
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I like to think Iām
Kind
Helpful
Loyal
Like a laugh
Honest
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If we believed what others told us about our personality and how they saw/ perceived it, then Iād be very worried,ā¦youād end up believing what everyone thought about youā¦they donāt live with us 24/7 therefore donāt know our personalityā¦they only know their ownā¦they can assume what they see, ā¦itās just their own opinion on anotherās personality.
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As I said, I canāt agree with you on this one Pauline, so weāll need to beg to differ.
I do agree that we should know what we like better than anyone else, but that is not the same as how others might view our personality at all.
As for you being so āpassionateā, wouldnāt that depend on who you compare yourself to?
There are no doubt others who are cold and frigid personalities, and in that case they would certainly think you Passionate. But by the same token, some might knock spots of you for demonstrative passion, and think you show very little emotion at all?
Dunno.
That is why we can at best I think, only describe how we think we are, which is possibly not remotely how we come over to others.
Letās agree to differ.
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Maybe we should post how we see another poster, instead of how we see ourselves!
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That could so easily be a minefield, Ruthio. 
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Definitely agree to differ,Mups.
I would never doubt anyone on here, on how they have summed up their personalities,ā¦they know themselves and they know their heartsā¦itās got nothing to do with how I think I amā¦I know ā whoā I amā¦but of course Iām not perfect, we all have off daysā¦itās not about how others see you, they could say all sorts of nasty things, to get you to doubt your true self and your true personality,ā¦so for me, itās truly knowing the heart of oneselfā¦the fruit of the Spiritā¦I think weāre definitely on different wavelengthsā¦and thatās ok, no problem with that,
Edit to add, itās really interesting how we see differently ā¦Iām not saying Iām right, ā¦but Iām right in what ā. Iā believe to be true.
As are you, Mupsā¦itās great to interact without getting into feisty cuffs,