Does Your Yes!...Mean Yes....And Your No!...Mean ,No!

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There was a time, when I would let people decide for me…:open_mouth::open_mouth:

I found my “ NO”…so important to find your no, as some will take a real advantage…of a “ yes” person.

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Haha who are you again :clown_face:

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You have to sometimes stand your ground and say no, or people will take advantage of you. :grinning:

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Well that’s simpleI’m clearly Chillie and you are obviously Lulu

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Phew for a minute there I thought I was confused :joy:

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I can do it now, Chillie, but it’s not easy…when a friend asks me to do something for them, because others have refused to help them, my emotions can and do get in the way, I feel it’s my responsibility to help…I’ve never been a selfish person in that area.

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Relax Captain America, I got this…

Now, what was I doing again…?

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I bet you were indecisive whether to look or not…” ping”…:rofl::joy::sweat_smile:

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No I agree with you there Pauline, circumstances play a big part. I would never deny anyone if I really thought they needed my help.
It’s the oh it’s ok Chillie (insert appropriate name) will help syndrome, being taken for granted. :slightly_smiling_face:

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I think sometimes too it is the expectation which can irk.

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I do say no easier nowadays .
But my philosophy in life is to say YES to every invitation whatever
I’m very decisive and I never change my mind . I have friends who say please dont give me a choice as I cant make up my mind .

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My yes means yes.
My no means no.
My maybe means check back later for a final decision.

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I was always a people pleaser and didn’t like to say no but I’ve gotten good at saying no these days, i call it my self care. Some aren’t too happy about it with not being used to it but they are getting used to it now and I feel less stressed for it.

My yeses and nos mean just that now.

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Yes but no but yes but … :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: :crazy_face: :rofl:

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can i phone a friend

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Where have I heard that before?

Wasn’t that on some tv show?

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Yes = yes

No = no.

I spent a long time dithering and it doesn’t mean diddly squat. I do solid decision making now :+1:

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